This article was updated in September 2024.
18 July 1877 is a date which Tchaikovsky would rue for the rest of his life. It was then that, in St George’s Church in Moscow, he embarked on his ill-fated marriage to Antonina Miliukova, a woman with whom he shared very little in common and who he would shortly come to detest. But there was another person there, an official witness to the marriage, with whom the composer felt a much keener sense of kinship, and who would inspire one of the best-known violin concertos in the repertoire.
Tchaikovsky had first met Iosif (or Josef) Kotek when he had tutored the young violinist in composition and music theory at the Moscow Conservatory. An early admirer of Tchaikovsky’s work, it was Kotek who, in 1877, recommended his teacher to the wealthy arts patron Nadezhda von Meck, a move that would have a profound effect on his career as a composer. Kotek was employed as a violin tutor in von Meck’s household at the time, and it was partly as a result of the musician’s enthusiastic reports that the influential businesswoman commissioned Tchaikovsky for a set of violin pieces, striking up a working relationship that would last for 14 years. Indeed, Von Meck’s patronage allowed the composer to leave his hated position at the Conservatory, leaving him free to develop his voice.
At the same time, Tchaikovsky’s artistic connection with Kotek was deepening. When the composer completed his Valse-Scherzo for violin and orchestra in February 1877, the dedication bore Kotek’s name, and it’s likely that the young man had a hand in the work’s orchestration. But there was also something more personal going on – Tchaikovsky had fallen in love with the violinist. His letters from the period are remarkable for their candidness regarding Kotek. In a letter to his brother Modest from January 1877, for example, Tchaikovsky professes his feelings for the violinist: “I cannot say that my love is completely pure. When he caresses me with his hand, when he lies with his head on my chest and I play with his hair and secretly kiss it… passion rages with me with unimaginable force.” In the same letter, however, the composer insists that he would never act on these impulses, claiming, “I would feel disgusted if this wonderful youth stooped to sex with an aged and fat-bellied man.”
A new concerto
By May of that year, Tchaikovsky’s attraction to Kotek had waned. He had been receiving love letters from Antonina Miliukova – also an ex-student. But when the pair’s marriage broke down acrimoniously after a mere six weeks, Kotek was there to provide emotional support, meeting with the composer in Vienna in the autumn of 1877. Moreover, when Tchaikovsky was recuperating from the trauma in Clarens, Switzerland, the following spring, it was Kotek who arrived with a case full of scores, including Lalo’s Symphonie espagnole, a concertante work for violin and orchestra. This, along with Kotek’s encouragement, gave Tchaikovsky the idea to work on a new violin concerto. “Do not think that he is a burden to me,” wrote the composer to his brother Anatoly in March. “In the first place, I enjoy making music with him; in the second, he is essential for my violin concerto; in the third, I love him very, very much.” Tchaikovsky and Kotek worked closely together on the piece over a short, concentrated period, with Kotek advising on the solo part throughout the process, learning the piece as it was composed and contributing to the orchestration. Within a few weeks, the piece was complete, but by now the violinist had begun to lose interest in the work. As a result, and also in an attempt to avoid gossip, Tchaikovsky dedicated the work to another violinist, the Hungarian Leopold Auer. Yet Auer would not première the work – some reports say he deemed the violin part unplayable, but in a later interview, he said he’d merely suggested some edits – and the piece sat on the shelf for three years.